Buying your first sex toy

Buying Your First Vibrator

Buying your first vibrator

So, you are up to the point where you are interested to try something new but have no idea where to start! Let me start you off with my experience in buying my first sex toy.

I was walking through the Red light district one night with my partner. We were living there at the time and thought we take a stroll through the district to check it out. Well, who doesn’t check out the Red light district when in Amsterdam!?

We found ourselves cruising through the shelves of a sex shop along the canal.

The lights were dark and dim mixed with neon pink, bright red and hints of neon blue. There was a mannequin at the front of the shop wearing a bondage mask with bondage suit and holding a whip. The store clerk was young, very tall and eager to have a chat and help us out.

Being in our early 20s we had no idea about sex toys except stuff we learnt from porn videos! ( this was before Google and You Tube)

So here we were, and he pointed me to the direction of the Rabbit. He said it’s the “best vibe on the market currently and women can’t get enough of it”Looking at it, to me, a first timer to sex toys I felt a little daunted by its size and shape! At that time, I had no idea about G spots and clitoral pleasure that these vibrators could bring! So, I said, “yeah ok, I will take one!” As I walked down the aisle, I will always remember the other shop assistant e never noticed upon entry, standing next to that mannequin with a soft swishy whip in his hand and giving me a gentle whip. Me, feeling slightly excited by the feel thought-yes! But maybe another time for that, I will keep it in mind! So, with a bag full of lubes, sex play cards and my rabbit we left.

My experience with the rabbit was an enjoyable one but not mind blowing orgasmic as I did not understand it and felt the size was too big. I think this is where we come to the subject of, when you buy your first sex toy even though it may be great, is it the right one for you to experience all it has to offer?

I believe all people have an idea of what they may like but not sure where to go from there.

Let me take you through a few variations of vibrators:

The Classic Vibrator– in my opinion a great place to start! Large or small, even pocket size! Uncomplicated just press start and away you go. A great place for exploring your erogenous zones such as the clitoris, G spot, nipples or any part of your body that may react to the vibrator in a pleasurable way!

The Clitoral Vibrator– all manner of pleasure comes from these! Not only are they super great for solo play, self-navigations and discovery, leading to amazing mind-blowing orgasms, this is the main pleasure point that when targeted with the correct vibrator can give an immense amount of pleasure. It is believed that most women orgasm with this on its own before even working toward the g spot or vaginal penetration. In addition to this, it is also a great couples sex toy as the you can have your partner take control of the clitoral stimulator and you can lie back and enjoy its pleasures. You could also use this as the same time as sexual intercourse as some are are designed to fit between the two of you without it getting in the way! These are called lay on clitoral stimulators

So, if you are after an external use vibrator that is quiet and has a powerful impact? This is the choice for you! With different styles, shapes and colours to choose from you will be able to find something that works well for you. Not only do they target precise clitoral stimulation, they can also stimulate the erogenous zones such as the nipples, testicles or the perineum.

The G spot Vibrator– ahh, that elusive G spot! Do not worry if you haven’t found yours yet, most women take some time to discover that exact spot that makes them shout out OOOOOO in orgasmic pleasure heaven. Trust me, you will know when have found it!

There are a range of superb G-Spot Vibrators with the curved tip to help women achieve heightened stimulation through firm pressure and repetitive strokes to the area located on the front wall of the vagina that will often lead to increased awareness and sensitivity of this erogenous zone!

These extremely popular vibes are used for Solo play and even with a partner. They come in a lot of sizes also, so whatever you desire, take time to look through until you find the one that speaks to you.

The Rabbit– This is the one that does it all and therefore the most popular still amongst sex toys for women. If you feel you want to work towards clitoral and g spot stimulation simultaneously then give the rabbit a go! Designed to aim the perfect combination of both erogenous zones it can really take you to new levels of pleasure and enjoyment. Most often they have the large shaft for vaginal stimulation aiming for the G-spot and a smaller clitoral stimulator attached to the front of the shaft- that part is known as the rabbit due to its bunny ears that direct themselves on to the clitoris for continual stimulation which can help reach climax in women. Your partner will probably love watching you play with this toy and watch you climax, there is nothing more seductive! These also come in different sizes and styles, so as with all vibrator choices, take your time, look at what you like the look of and go for gold!

The WandThe ideal sex toy for couples to help relax the body, assist with intimate time with your partner and if you wish, awaken the desires by massaging the erogenous zones of your lover or yourself!

Wands do come in many forms, some for relaxation and massaging your external pleasure zones, others come with attachments for additional internal pleasure.

This sex toy is known as a personal massager and something that if kept out by accident where prying eye can see will only been see as that- a personal massager! So, display away for this one, no need to hide. Therefore, it is one of the most popular sex toys for men, women and couples, it is a perfect gateway into the wonderful world of sex toys!

So, Weather you are young, or old and just starting out in discovering all the joys sex toys may bring to your life or spice up your relationship, there are, as you see, many different styles of vibrators to choose from. Remember, all have the same purpose- to bring you pleasure!

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